—White
males, as a class, are immune to offensive words
Not long ago, I saw a promo for one of those reality shows where a good-looking
young woman (a babe, if you will) looks straight into the camera and
says, "I'm a bitch, I'm gorgeous and I'm fabulous."
I remember when you had to be very careful about saying the word bitch
around a woman. And you wouldn't even think about calling her one. Today, they
call themselves bitches, like it's all the rage or something. I can't help but
think it's connected with that book that came out a few years back. If I remember
correctly, it was entitled, Getting In Touch With Your Inner Bitch.
It got me to thinking about something that's been stirring in the back of my
mind for years now. It's the fact that all classes of people are offended
by specific words, with but one exception: the class of white males.
For the life of me, I can't think of a single word that offends me as a
white male. It is indeed possible to offend me personally, but not as a
member of that class.
By contrast, I could meet a black person (one I've never met before) and horrendously
insult them by calling them a nigger. But they could not reciprocate. There
is nothing a black person (excuse me, an African American) could say to me that
I would find insulting in the same way, and to the same extent, that they would
find the word nigger insulting.
In that sense, there is an inequality that still exists between us. I have a
power they do not have. I have the power to insult them. But they do not have
the power to insult me. (Remember, I'm not talking about me personally,
but simply as a white male.)
And of course I could have the same kind of experience with a woman (of any
color). I could meet one (again, one I don't know), call her a whore and greatly
offend her.
And just like the scenario with the black person, she could not reciprocate.
There is nothing she could say to me that would offend me in the same way (and
to the degree) that I offended her.
The fact that one class of people may be insulted by a word thrown at them by
another, and be completely unable to reciprocate, is a tacit acceptance on the
part of the offended class that a certain inequality exiists between them.
The class of white males is not offended by any words.
There is only one conclusion we may draw from this: white males are clearly
superior to all other classes (at least in terms of their ability to be unaffected
by words), and will remain in that position of superiority until the other classes
can think of words that are just as offensive to white males as are the words
that they are offended by.
Lest anyone object to this by asserting that other classes have no interest
in creating such words, it is important to emphasize that such disinterest is
not the issue. The point is that it is impossible to create them. Whether
you want to or not is irrelevant. The class of white males is not offended by
words, and cannot be so offended.
But there is yet hope.
The other classes could learn not to be offended by the words, which is something
they should do if they want to be truly equal with the class of white males.
If they want the real deal with us (bona fide equality),
there is only one way they are going to have it. They absolutely positively
must stop being offended by words, any words, but especially class
words.
Women must make it unequivocally clear to men that they do not give a solitary
damn what they are called, or how they are spoken to. And they must mean it.
Simply mouthing the words won't work.
African Americans must call for a repeal of the prohibition on using the so-called
N-word. They must make it absolutely clear that it
is ok for anyone to use it, regardless of their color.
In fact, they should probably invite white people (especially males) to call
them niggers whenever they feel like it. Otherwise the word is going to continue
lingering and festering in the deepest regions of their souls like some sort
of bogeyman waiting to pounce on them some day.
As long as you are offended by a word, that word has power over you. You are
literally enslaved by it. If you want to be released from this form of slavery,
only you can do it.
And you're not released from it just because a government office issues some
sort of statement declaring that a word is offensive. You are not released until
you say that it isn't! This is a type of slavery from which you must
free yourself. No one can do it for you.
Essentially, what I am trying to say is that class distinctions are only reinforced
by certain forms of word usage.
But it's not just the usage. It's the reaction.
The fact that a white male can offend a member of a particular social class
with a mere word is an indication of the power of their class ... or, it is
an indication of the inferiority of the class that is being offended by the
word (inferior because they are so easily duped into being offended).
All classes of people clearly demonstrate that they believe the class
of white males is still superior whenever they make it clear that the white
males have the power to offend them with words.
And white males will continue to wield that power as long as the members of
the other classes allow them, and they allow them by continuing to
demonstrate that they are still offended. Talk about a vicious cycle.
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